Why
Am I Still Single?
If you ask many married
people if they enjoy being married, many would say that they’d prefer to be
single. And if you ask many single
people if they love the single life, many would say that they wish they were
married. Studies show that men who are
married live longer and statistics tell us that women instigate more than 75%
of today's divorces. Despite the
numbers, men and women are asking themselves one simple question, “Why am I
still single?”
Though I am a four time
divorcee, marriage will always be on the table because I love relationships and
the institution of marriage. Most people
would be afraid to say “I do” after so many divorces, but I welcome it. My motto, “Try, try, try again.” Please don’t think that I am bragging about
my divorces; however, I am bragging that four men found me worthy of being
called “wife.” So let us talk about why
you are still single.
Singleness is a mindset. So a man thinks, so he is! Once you decide that a relationship is what
you truly desire and deserve, it will come.
Doubt is a negative and fear can either be a motivator or a
hindrance. In your case, it’s a
hindrance. Here are some reasons that
you might be single still.
·
You
don’t believe you are worthy of authentic love.
·
Fear
of your past.
·
You
are not confident in who you are and what you deserve.
·
You
are not putting yourself in a position to be found.
·
You
are not seeking a relationship or looking for that special someone.
·
You
are listening to other people.
·
You
are afraid of rejection.
·
You
are afraid of love.
·
Lack
of communication skills.
·
And
you don’t love yourself, therefore you cannot offer love to anyone else.
If you truly want to love again and you desire a relationship, love awaits you!
2013 Copyright Cheron K. Griffin
www.3pmbook.com
www.cheronkgriffin.com
www.twitter.com/cheronkgriffin
www.facebook.com/cheron.k.griffin
No comments:
Post a Comment